DEAR DEIDRE: I BITTERLY regret lashing out at my partner after I had been drinking all afternoon.
I’m a 54-year-old gay man and my boyfriend is 56. Our relationship has had many ups and downs, mainly because I’m volatile.
On many occasions he has found emails and texts that have shown him I have been straying. The latest one was very recent.
He was very calm when he asked me about it and suggested that perhaps I wanted an open relationship.
That is the last thing I want. I think I stray because I like the excitement.
My partner is caring for his elderly mother at the moment and as he…